For Those We Lost And Those Who Survived: The Pulse Massacre One Year Later


The pain of June 12 still pangs just as palpably today for Mayra Alvear as it did one year ago.

Its been twelve months since Omar Mateen entered Pulse nightclub during Pride month 2016 and opened fire with a semi-automatic assault rifle in a three-hour rampage that left 49 people dead including Alvears youngest daughter, Amanda.

It was the worst mass shooting in modern American history, occurring on the LGBTQ clubs Latin night a targeted attack against queer people of color that sent shockwaves through the LGBTQ community globally.

The time between then and now has held unimaginable grief for many a daily struggle to make sense of the lives taken and the level of sheer horror and hate that permeated Pulse that morning.

And for Alvear and countless others, that grief has now been harnessed and channeled into a resolute mission: to be a voice for those who were lost to ensure that their loved ones are never forgotten, and to bring awareness to the culture of violence and deep-seated bigotry towards minorities permeating the fabric of the United States.

I have to keep fighting for her memory that shes not forgotten, that her death isnt in vain, Alvear told HuffPost. There is so much love out there. I want the legacy of these kids to be that. To show the world that [being LGBTQ] is more than a label these are people that were loved, they were caring, they were human and these hate crimes are just totally uncalled for. Unnecessary. We are here because God created us and he created us all equal and some people dont seem to have this kind of vision. I dont know what kind of world they want to live in.

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Mayra Alvear poses with a banner she made for her daughter Amanda Alvear and Mercedez Flores both killed in the Pulse nightclub shootings last year.

Those who survived.

The Pulse shooting shook multiple communities and those who exist at their intersections to their cores. It raised countless questions about modern-day homophobia includinginternalized transphobia, gun violence, racism, Islamophobia and the human capacity for evil.

While the country and LGBTQ people around the world mourned, attended vigils, created art, and processed their grief in their own ways, a new reality and all-encompassing landscape of heartbreak faced the city of Orlando.

Those who survived found themselves profoundly and irreversibly changed.

The first couple of days in the hospital was a very hard time for me, Patience Carter, a survivor whose cousin Akyra Murray died in Pulse, told HuffPost. I was in a really bad place. The experience initially traumatized me in a way that made me feel as if living was a privilege that I didnt deserve. I was angry with God because I was just like, why would you leave me here in this situation knowing that all of these other people didnt make it? I felt like I didnt deserve the opportunity to live.

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A visitor to the makeshift memorial for the victims of the Pulse massacre relights a candle after an afternoon rain shower at the Dr. Phillips Center for the Performing Arts in downtown Orlando, Fla., on Saturday, June 18, 2016.

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Those who made it out of Pulse alive still grapple with intense survivors guilt; many saw their friends and loved ones die before their own eyes or held them in their arms as they took their last breaths.

A number of the survivors, like Carter, were trapped in the bathroom stalls of Pulse for hours, hearing others die around them until police eventually entered the club using explosives at 5:02 a.m., killing Mateen after a chaotic shootout.

Carter credits her survival to a man named Jason Josaphat who shielded her from gunfire while hiding in the bathroom.

He basically covered my body with his, she said. The guy shot his gun and I heard [Jason] scream. Then the police busted through the wall.

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NEW YORK, NY – MAY 30: Patience Carter, a survivor of the Pulse nightclub shooting that took place in Orlando, Florida poses for a portrait in New York on May 30, 2017.

But for Carter and others who walked or were carried out of Pulse alive that morning, survival also comes with a heavy sense of responsibility.

Angel Colon, one of the survivors who receivedsignificant media visibilityin the year since the tragedy, was shot six times during Mateens rampage. He underwent his fourth surgery less than a month ago and continues to rely on a cane as he learns to walk again.

I started thinking to myself, you know I cant stay in a room with the doors closed and thinking about this night over and over again and be depressed, Colon told HuffPost. I have to do something about it I have to speak out about it. After seeing the love and support, I thought to myself I need to do that as well for the other survivors. I need to make sure that were all together and do this together. So I decided to be a voice.

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Gunshot survivor Angel Colon speaks at a news conference at the Orlando Regional Medical Center on the shooting at the Pulse gay nightclub in Orlando, Florida, June 14, 2016.

Colon has used his new platform to speak out about common sense gun legislation and violence against LGBTQ people. His voice joins a chorus of organizations that have sprung up in the wake of Pulse at the intersection of these two issues, like Gays Against Guns, a group that uses street performance to raise awareness about flawed gun control laws and its convergence with homophobia.

Authorities discovered after Pulse that Mateen was questioned about potential ties to terrorism in 2013 and 2014 and placed on a terrorist watch list. He was eventually taken off the list but even if his name had been on that list in 2016, he still wouldhave been able to buy the gunsused during his rampage under current American gun laws.

The immediate aftermath of Pulse also shed light on the unfair, homophobic regulations surrounding blood donation in the United States. There was an urgent and pressing need for blood to save the lives of queer people after Pulse, but men who have sex with men must remain celibate for a year in order to be eligible for donation.

As a result, Colon now also advocates alongside fellow survivor Tony Marrero for OneBlood, a nonprofit committed to providing safe, available and affordable blood, particularly in moments of crisis.

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Angel Colon a survivor of the Pulse shooting poses for a photograph at Lake Eola Park in Orlando Florida on May 31 2017

What spaces are truly safe?

For Marreno, witnessing continued events of large-scale violence in spaces of entertainment and amusement are particularly difficult in the wake of Pulse.

He and Carter both told HuffPost that the recent attack at an Ariana Grande concert in Manchester, U.K.hit devastatingly close to home.

I had a breakdown, Marrero said. That hit me hard not just because a lot of people got hurt, but were talking about an Ariana Grande concert! Most of her fans and followers are kids what are we talking about here? Now I cant even go out and enjoy a concert?

The conversation about safe spaces for vulnerable individuals and their ties to high-impact acts of violence tends to move center stage following tragedies like Pulse and Manchester.

LGBTQ people have always had to carve out space for themselves in a world not designed for them to survive and prosper and, in many situations, gay bars have served as those safe spaces. Because of this,for many LGBTQ people, the physical venue of the Pulse tragedy felt like a shooting in their own home.

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ORLANDO, FL – JUNE 16: Jiffy Lube employee Ralph Nieves put up a sign of support for the Orlando community following the shooting at the Pulse nightclub last Saturday night on June 16, 2016 in Orlando, Florida.

And while queer people knew that the attack on Pulse was one rooted in homophobiafrom the second it happened, many people and some mediatried to push back and erase the targeted nature of the massacre against queer Latinx individuals.It wasnt until Mateens father told media that his son was angered by the sight of two men kissing that he wasnt motivated by religion that the narrative started to change on a larger scale.

[Pulse] came down to this sort of discussion about safe space that we had been having for awhile, queer performer and RuPauls Drag Race finalist Sasha Velour told HuffPost. That term had been used so loosely and all of the sudden the Pulse tragedy made it feel really urgent and really tangible like not an emotional safe space but a real physical need to have a space where queer bodies, especially the bodies of queer people of color and especially Latinos, need to be protected and centered.

This centering of the experiences of queer Latinx people in the discussion about Pulse is crucial, as mainstream media in the immediate aftermath of the tragedy largely ignored and erased the fact that over 90% of those killed were LGBTQ people of color.

For actor Wilson Cruz, who lost a family member in the tragedy, this erasure of the targeted nature of the attack on queer people of color proved especially frustrating and ultimately informed his decision to become part of the conversation about what happened at Pulse.

Most of [the victims] were Puerto Ricans and were part of an exodus from the island because of the financial and economic turmoil that faced Puerto Rico, who came to Orlando in order to find a better life, Cruz told HuffPost. That part of the story wasnt being told, and so I started to speak out about what happened and to pay tribute to them because I thought that was a big part of the story that was being missed.

Starting to heal.

In the days following the tragedy, local Orlando LGBTQ leaders also quickly learned how ill-prepared they were to meet the specific needs of their Latinx community members.

Queer people in Orlando and their families who were either undocumented or didnt speak English already faced a number of challenges in day-to-day life things like access to resources and adequate mental health care and saw these disparities further exacerbated immediately following Pulse.

Pulse happened and we realized we were missing a segment of our community we didnt have a Spanish-speaking person here every single day, so if somebody walked in that just spoke Spanish, we were not able to service that person or help that person with what they needed, Terry DeCarlo, Executive Director of The LGBT Center of Central Florida, told HuffPost, adding that theyve changed their curriculum and plan to open a new office staffed entirely by Hispanic individuals. There were things that we learned out of this and changed, but groups like QLatinx, which is one of the main ones that came out of [Pulse], they are doing amazing things.

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ORLANDO, FL – JUNE 18: Two women embrace beside a memorial down the road from the Pulse nightclub on June 18, 2016 in Orlando, Florida.

Organizations like QLatinx found financial support in the immediate aftermath of Pulse from groups like Contigo Fund, a foundation that also grew out of the tragedy and funds organizations dedicated to the healing, strengthening and empowerment of LGBTQ and Latinx people in the Central Florida area.

Marco Quiroga, Contigo Fund Program Director, told HuffPost that prior to the massacre, most nonprofits have been working in silos. There was a lot of duplication of services, he said. Florida is fiftieth in the country for mental health care and one of the biggest flare ups that we saw after the tragedy was the fact that there were zero LGBTQ-competent and linguistically competent mental health services available to the individuals who were impacted directly and the broader community who has been traumatized by the tragedy.

In the months since, these organizations, as well as others likeHispanic Federationand Proyecto Somos Orlando,have worked to fill the gaps in access to resources and care for these communities, as well as pushing established LGBTQ centers and nonprofits to broaden their scope.

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Marco Quiroga poses for a portrait on May 31, 2017 in Orlando, Florida.

Compassion begins with education.

Other groups and services that have emerged focus on the need for comprehensive education about LGBTQ issues and experiences in order to change hearts and minds and encourage empathy.

The Dru Project is one of these organizations, created by the friends of Drew Leinonen, a 32-year-old gay man who died in Pulse along with his boyfriend, Juan Guerrero. The groups focus is on Gay Straight Alliances in high schools, developing a curriculum for these high school groups to adopt and also to provide scholarships.

For the founders of The Dru Project, it is crucial to provide safe spaces in schools for LGBTQ students and to encourage empathetic attitudes towards queer kids in public schools from a young age.

Leinonens mother, Christine, has since become a mom mascot of sorts for the group and has evolved into an outspoken advocate for gay rights and gun safety. She also spoke onstage at the 2016 Democratic National Convention about the loss of her son.

One good thing that has come out of the tragedy is I always thought I was a loving, kind compassionate person but as a result of losing my son in this violent way, I have developed a level of compassion that is deeper than I thought was humanly possible, Leinonen told HuffPost. [And] I have a constant message for parents, period, to love their children exactly as they come to them.

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PHILADELPHIA, PA. — WEDNESDAY, JULY 27, 2016: Brandon Wolf, from left, Christine Leinonen and Jose Arraigada at the 2016 Democratic National Convention, in Philadelphia, Pa.

The fight continues.

This need to focus on education, on changing hearts and minds when it comes to LGBTQ identity and experiences as well as the experiences of all minority groups from an early age is a common thought echoed among survivors, family members and activists who experienced Pulse and its aftermath.

Horror will continue to occur and constantly be reinvented in new and unspeakable ways until the roots of the problems surrounding Pulse namely, socialized bigotry and prejudice from a young age and rampant gun violence are addressed and dismantled.

And yet, since that fateful day, we have new challenges to face, including a president and administration which, at best, ignore queer people and, at worst, refuse to protect them. But one thing is certain: the fight for equality of all human beings continues and is bolstered by the memory of those who we lost on June 12.

Pulse nightclub is now in the process of becoming a memorial site. As Alvear notes, Forty years from here, whoever visits [Pulse], they will know that it happened and that love will always conquer everything.

And for Brandon Wolf,a survivor and co-founder of The Dru Project, reflecting on Pulse, the memorial site, and the twelve months since the tragedy has left him with a call to action.

We are never in a place where we can stop demanding equality, where we can stop challenging people to be better than they were yesterday, he told HuffPost. We have a long way to go. And if Pulse serves as any reminder, its that we arent done fighting. We are never done fighting until every last person in this world is accepted and loved for who they are. Im certainly not going to stop fighting and I hope you dont either.

What follows are the names of the 49 victims who died in the Pulse Nightclub Massacre. Rest in power.

Stanley Almodovar III, 23

Amanda L. Alvear, 25

Oscar A. Aracena Montero, 26

Rodolfo Ayala Ayala, 33

Antonio Davon Brown, 29

Darryl Roman Burt II, 29

Angel Candelario-Padro, 28

Juan Chavez Martinez, 25

Luis Daniel Conde, 39

Cory James Connell, 21

Tevin Eugene Crosby, 25

Deonka Deidra Drayton, 32

Simn Adrian Carrillo Fernndez, 31

Leroy Valentin Fernandez, 25

Mercedez Marisol Flores, 26

Peter Ommy Gonzalez Cruz, 22

Juan Ramon Guerrero, 22

Paul Terrell Henry, 41

Frank Hernandez, 27

Miguel Angel Honorato, 30

Javier Jorge Reyes, 40

Jason Benjamin Josaphat, 19

Eddie Jamoldroy Justice, 30

Anthony Luis Laureano Disla, 25

Christopher Andrew Leinonen, 32

Alejandro Barrios Martinez, 21

Brenda Marquez McCool, 49

Gilberto R. Silva Menendez, 25

Kimberly Jean Morris, 37

Akyra Monet Murray, 18

Luis Omar Ocasio Capo, 20

Geraldo A. Ortiz Jimenez, 25

Eric Ivan Ortiz-Rivera, 36

Joel Rayon Paniagua, 32

Jean Carlos Mendez Perez, 35

Enrique L. Rios, Jr., 25

Jean Carlos Nieves Rodrguez, 27

Xavier Emmanuel Serrano-Rosado, 35

Christopher Joseph Sanfeliz, 24

Yilmary Rodrguez Solivan, 24

Edward Sotomayor Jr., 34

Shane Evan Tomlinson, 33

Martin Benitez Torres, 33

Jonathan A. Camuy Vega, 24

Juan Pablo Rivera Velzquez, 37

Luis Sergio Vielma, 22

Franky Jimmy DeJesus Velzquez, 50

Luis Daniel Wilson-Leon, 37

Jerald Arthur Wright, 31

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